Black and white close-up of a bride's hands and engagement ring on the groom's lapel

thoughtful guidance for the modern kallah planning it herself

Modern Orthodox wedding consulting across New York, New Jersey and Connecticut.

Photo: Alex Knight
Kyla in white pajamas standing beside her hanging wedding gown
Photo: Alex Knight

welcome to modern kallah

Hi! I’m Kyla, founder of Modern Kallah.

As a recent bride, I know how overwhelming it is to go from “just engaged” to “I need to make a hundred decisions, now.” When I planned my own wedding, I kept wishing I had a go-to person who knew Modern Orthodox weddings, wasn’t trying to sell me anything, and would just tell me what they’d do.

So that’s what I do now.

You’re the one making the decisions. I’m the one who makes the vendor calls, maps out your chuppah, and answers the “wait, is this normal?” question for Modern Orthodox weddings across the tri-state area.

1:1 planning help

You stay in charge of your wedding.
Pick the kind of help you need, from a single call to a monthly sounding board.

Floral chuppah of pink and white roses in front of a stone fireplace
Bridal shoes, veil, engagement ring and ranunculus laid out on navy velvet
Three-tier buttercream wedding cake with pink and cream roses

Photos: Alex Knight

free guides

Registry

Kosher Registry Checklist

A complete registry checklist with clickable Amazon links so you can build a beautiful, well-stocked kosher home.

To-do list

Wedding To-Do List

A month-by-month list of everything that needs to get done before the big day. Reach out for a customized plan.

Packing list

Day-Of Packing List

A full wedding day packing list so you can feel confident and relaxed knowing nothing got left behind.

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